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Thursday, September 13, 2012
Happy New You!
Aha! There it is! The September/October edition of the Chippewa Valley's premier women's magazine is on the stands. Here is the link to the website where you can find full editions. 5iveForWomen
Here's to a Happy New You!
Autumn always catches me by surprise.It seems as though I go to sleep one night to
warm summer breezes and wake up to a cool catch in the sky.The trees burst in gold and red.Shadows are sharper and longer.Autumn is here!
Other seasons sort of slide into each other.The air warms slowly in spring bringing bits
of bright flowers one bloom at a time.Spring slips into summer with temps climbing with the corn.Even winter sneaks in behind Thanksgiving and
teases until Christmas.But autumn
bursts in, forcing the door wide open and catching me off guard.One of these years I will remember to throw a
jacket in the car for those days that start with the AC on and end with a
The “Back to School” ads should be my first warning sign.Every marketer worth their salt will take
advantage of it.All the things a
student needs to be the smartest, best dressed, most popular shout from every
vantage point.Every corner store touts
all the right tools to give the student the best boost.
Even with all those red and orange shouting sale signs,
autumn shocks me.The leaves begin to
fall, the flowers begin to fade and the bustle of summer gives way to matters
of great importance.It feels like
autumn should be the beginning of the year.Maybe it’s all the stacked up years of school behind me, but I feel like
I should be doing something new every fall.
Life seasons are like that, too, I have found.We skip our way through the school and work
years -building careers and families one small moment at a time.Laced with laughter, stitched with weary
work, life builds a full photo album of Kodak moments.
We are in college or engaged or starting a new career.We sing through the pages presented hardly
noticing the pace increasing stanza by stanza.Possibly children are added to the symphony bringing their own joyful
sounds to the concert.No time to stop
and listen!The conductor pushes us
forward to the fine!
Wise live-rs soak up the memories banking them against the
future.They take long walks holding
small hands.They swim and boat and
splash while the sun is high.They take
time for coffee breaks with friends absorbing the good of their fellow
travelers.These are people who know it
is much easier to carry a burden with a friend than to stumble along
alone.They use the precious commodity
of time to stash away smiles to pull out when the season changes.
Because, one day, suddenly, without warning it changes.The nest is empty, trauma knocks on the door,
the company downsizes and we find ourselves looking at a new path that we
didn’t expect to see.Change appears
and challenges our perceptions.It’s
disconcerting when everything we worked so hard to build begins to fall.The very foundation beneath us shakes until
up is down and down is up.
The trick to getting through the change is to find something
to focus on that is good, beautiful, fulfilling.Use the season to your advantage.Pull from the storehouse of relationships you
have built in the summer season and you will find shelter and strength against
the hard days.
It’s likely you cannot control the catalyst of this change
anymore than you can put the leaves back on the trees.It’s likely you didn’t realize how much of
yourself you had given away to the summer sunshine and now you find yourself
depleted and chilled.It’s likely you
have been made to stop, to wait for the bus, to hold the new tools given by
someone else as you face an uncertain day.
What does “normal” look like now?When the rain stops dripping and the wind
stops blowing and all the golden drops of promise have swirled away, what
remains?Your character, your loved
ones, your talents.
Like a kid with a new school year, look beyond the
challenges and invest in a new outcome.
You will find deeper riches in this season.Kick up that carpet of leaves and dance on
the crunchy floor of them!Invite a
friend in and treat them to tea for two!Breathe deeply of the fresh, crisp air!Fill your lungs and sing!
If autumn has caught you by surprise, unwrap the present and
see what blessings it holds.Today is
the first day of the rest of your life.Love lavishly.Live deeply.Laugh richly.
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