Milwaukee. You're my Home.

 I'm home.  

Like, back in Milwaukee, for real.

I have always been an urbanite. I love Milwaukee.  I love being downtown in the morning when the sun peeks over the lake and streams down Wisconsin Avenue.  Before the bustle begins when the air is crisp and the shadows are sharp you can feel everything just waiting to begin. Slowly the cars arrive, the shop doors open, the busses beep, and passengers step into the fray.  

Art museum events, walks with friends down the Avenue, lunch at the Farmer's Market behind the Grand dance in my heart and remind me of those other days. 

I have so many memories of visiting, working, and hanging out downtown.  I've watched the ebb and flow of increase and decrease many times in my life.  It's a favorite place.

And then I left.  I became only a visitor who sometimes went downtown when I stopped in between more important things, who might have taken a picture or two of the lake, but whose attention was clearly elsewhere.

I was living broadly in those elsewhere years.  From Minneapolis to Moscow and several points in between.  Alone, often.  Lonely, rarely.  College degree.  Traveling city to city to soak up culture, history, friendships.  Oh! the places that I went!  The coffee drank.  The tastes sampled. The laughter guffawed.  I remember one day, in particular, sitting at a lovely little shop in St. Petersburgh reading Chekhov and drinking tea.  And roaming Boston as if I owned the place!  And New York, of course, and St. Louis, and... and.. 

But home beckoned.  That great place by a Great Lake wanted me back.

When the opportunity to come home presented itself, I knew it was time.  

It was the offer more than the location.  You see, down in my heart of hearts, I know where my passion lies.  I deeply, sincerely, want to change the image of my city.  I hate that it's called the most segregated city in America.  I despise the idea that there are kids who are not given purpose, access to education, healthcare.  How can that be?  

Milwaukee has a long, long history of openness and acceptance.  Look at the pictures of the people who really built the city.  They are strangers from many different places who got through winter's storms and summer's heat to dig deep and settle in.  

Somewhere along the line someone decided they weren't us and we weren't them and hard words and violence ensued.  A chasm split the city into angry mobs.  

I, personally, don't understand it.  

Urban studying professors may tell you it was because of red-lining and freeway building that poverty dug her talons into my city.  Accountants might blame it on booming industry that later ceased booming and caused massive lay-offs.  Others will say it's because the Italians went over there and the Poles to that side and the immigrants from elsewhere settled into that neighborhood.  Which, I do know personally, to an extent is true.  We all hold our sameness closely and there are definite ethnic neighborhoods.  However, the whole ethnic mix is guilty of this.  We live and shop where we do because of common ideas, convenience, and personal preferences. 

But the idea that people aren't welcome in one place or another because of their skin or religion, I don't understand.  I have felt it, but I don't understand it.  It always takes me by surprise.

Because most people whether they look like me or not, are welcoming and friendly.  

What does that have to do with my being home?  I'm here with a large worldview now.  I have seen how other people in other places navigate strangers.  And I have come to the conclusion that the real determining factor is a lack of understanding.

I'm home.  I don't know how I'm going to do it, but I'm going to be someone who fosters greater understanding, greater grace, and greater love for others.  I passionately believe that education is the key to eradicating poverty.  I plan to be involved in increasing educational opportunities for urban students and teachers.  

For example, I'll be working this summer with the Center for Urban Teaching and its summer school program.  It's an incredible organization that prepares teachers with real, tangible skills to bring back to classrooms. Its methods are data-proven with 7 of 10 of the highest performing schools in Milwaukee being linked to CfUT.  Teachers, leaders and students all feel the benefits of this program. 

I hereby therefore henceforth (and any other old English word of your choosing) plan to be the change my city needs.

Amen. 

Who is with me?

Casting and Cares

I shared this with a ladies' group and thought perhaps you might like it, also.  As summer teases us, it's a good time to think about good times.  

Today’s Bible verse calls up a very vivid memory for me.

I can see my 10-year-old self on the banks of Jackson Park lagoon. I’m leaning against a tree and watching my grandpa as he digs around the tackle box.

“You want to make sure you have the right lure and the right sinkers.” He is talking more to himself than me, but I’m trying to really listen. I’d rather be swimming. But the pool is unexpectedly closed and I said I would fish with him instead.

Truth be told, I never really liked the whole process of fishing. First of all, there is the hook which can get caught in your finger – which I experienced at a much younger age. Then, there is the catching of the smelly fish which … smell. Finally, there is the cleaning of the smelly fish which is even smellier. I didn’t mind eating them, however, but the rest of the process was not my favorite.

Being with my grandpa, however, was always a treasure. He was 6’2” of stories, patience, and love. We spent countless hours walking around this lagoon from my earliest childhood.

And so I succumbed on this summer day to fish with him. Little did I know this would be one of the last opportunities for such a magical day.

“You remember how to put the sinkers on? You do that part and I’ll get the hook set on the other pole.”

I did remember. You had to have them in the right place and then clinch them together or you couldn’t properly cast the line. It wouldn’t go far enough out and it wouldn’t sink far enough down. Casting was a very important step in fishing.

I clinched the sinkers with the pinchers and carefully re-wound the line on my pole and set it down. I reached over to Grandpa’s pole and set his sinkers, also.

“Well, looky there. You got that perfect. Thanks.” The sun behind him was shaded by the ever-present hat cocked jauntily on his head. I beamed in his approval. Even now, almost 50 years later, I can feel his love wrap around me like a blanket.

“Ready to cast?”

Here’s the thing about casting. You have to do it. Willfully, purposefully, and confidently. This is not a namby-pamby action. You have to cast with strength or your hook will hook the tree above you, the grass beside you, yourself. I speak from experience.

This time, I cast perfectly. I absolutely flipped my wrist, let loose the reel, and watched the hook and line soar out over the pond.

I don’t remember catching anything that day except a sunburn. But I remember that cast. I’m sure it’s the best cast I ever casted. I’m also sure I have never fished again.

I know what you’re thinking. What verse are you talking about? Being fishers of men? Being called like John and Andrew? Where is she going?

Actually, here is the verse that brought that lovely memory:

1 Peter 5:7 (KJV) Cast all your cares on Him, for he careth for you.

Now you understand the casting. Picture yourself with confidence, strength, and determination literally casting your cares to Jesus as if He is standing beside you like my Grandpa. Tall, strong, capable just waiting to help you, waiting to tell you how proud He is of you.

If you can’t quite picture that, let’s read it in The Passion Translation:

1 Peter 5:7 (TPT) Pour out all your worries and stress upon Him and leave them there, for he always tenderly cares for you.

In our culture of independence, especially for “modern” women, it’s hard to be vulnerable enough to ask for help. But do it. Just try it. Find yourself a place to pray and pour out the whole entire set of problems. Big and small. He has time to listen. Your problems are not a bother to Him because they are too small. He never said that He only cares about big problems. In fact, cancer that needs to be healed has the same capacity for a miracle as the stretched budget and the healing in your heart over a friend who just betrayed you and the situation at home or work that you can’t seem to solve. If it’s your concern, He cares about it. Talk to Him.

What have you got to lose?

It might just be that one prayer time, that one specific connection to Jesus will live on in your memory like a sunny day at a lagoon that the thought of makes you feel heard, cared for, and loved.